A Tribute To My Mom And Dad For Both Mother’s And Father’s Day, And With Important Stories

A tribute to my Mom and Dad, both deceased now for many years.

My Daddy loved sports cars.  The blue convertible is a Fiat 124 and the orange one (second photo) is a very rare Dodson Fairlady.  He also had a couple more European cars…being another Fiat and a Peugeot.

My Dad had an engineering mind with an ability to improvise a mechanical fix when he didn’t have the necessary parts. This was especially true as related to cars…which were always his passion. In the early days, I remember him cutting copper-shims and placing underneath engine bearings rather than using new bearings. However, this was a common practice during the early years and even into the 60’s.

This was a long process, especially for a V-8 engine with 16-valves and seats to surface.

A modern hand-lapper tool pictured below, is similar to what I used, so many years ago. However, the one I used (again) had a wooden handle and a suction cup on only one end, but not very different.

The Wright Brothers made their first flight in December 1903, lasting only 12 seconds. The Titanic sank on April 12th 1912.

The first Ford Model T was produced in 1908, but very few people or families owned one, at least in the area where my Dad lived. It would be many years later before the general populous would own one.

The first Model A was produced in 1927. This would be the car that allowed the masses to own a gas powered vehicle, worthy of traveling great distances.

He would later begin working as an auto-mechanic, and would work for himself at times and then at many different garages over the coming years.

My Dad had an offer to work at the Savannah River Nuclear Facility, but decided against it. This facility was being built in the early 50’s to produce and fabricate nuclear weapons, primarily tritium and plutonian-239. Some “seriously dangerous materials” for sure!

I really can’t remember all of the particulars, but I do remember why he didn’t take the job, according to my Mom. However, I’ll let this remain a mystery at this time. And no, it was not due to the plutonian-239.

However, if my Dad had taken this job, it would have for certain changed the trajectory of my family. It could have been beneficial to the family finances for sure.

It could have been good for me also: As I needed my own bicycle, a serious astronomical telescope or two, an authentic Duncan YoYo, an electric train set, a slinky and other essentials that kids needed in those days. 🙂

When engineers were trying to figure out how to move the Cape Hatteras Lighthouse further inland, away from the ocean, I remember my dad having his own thoughts. The Outer Banks of North Carolina are very unstable land masses and constantly changing.  His thoughts were as following:

“……it needs to be lifted up using the same principle as moving a house, then installing a massive rail-system underneath. The rails would extend the entire distance to be moved, or to its new and final resting location. The lighthouse would have to be moved very slowly, maybe only inches a day, which would allow very close monitoring of the process.”

Well, this was pretty much the exact way the famous lighthouse was moved...

For a size comparison, note the two story light keepers house in the photo: An incredibly massive and heavy structure, and 210 feet in height. It’s amazing it could be moved.truly an engineering marvel.

I made the following photo in April 1982 of the lighthouse in its original location, from 1870.

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Ruby Whisnant Ivester:

She was extremely intelligent, excellent in math, very artistic, beautiful handwriting and well read. And this was many years before the internet. She would purchase one encyclopedia every month, or sometimes each week, from the Shelby Winn-Dixie, where we got our groceries on either Friday nights or Saturday afternoons.

We received the National Geographic Magazine, during the entire decade of the 60’s, and even beyond. With the addition of our grocery store encyclopedia’s, what more could we possibly need to learn about everything….beyond our dirt road?

I sent off for a free stamp collection, or maybe it was all for a dime I’d sent them. Then I started receiving more and more (worthless) international stamps and more and more books. The company was located in Garden City, New Jersey. I then received a bill for $35!

I just ignored the letter, but a month or so later, while sitting on the edge of the porch, barefooted…I read, this time a legal letter.

They advised me to seek legal counsel, as they would be sending their attorney to meet with me and my attorney in Shelby, NC, within the month. But my stamps and books were suppose to be free…or covered by the dime I’d included in the envelope!

She quickly looked in our “savings” drawer and counted out $35, and put in an envelope. I’ll never forget the both of us cramming the stamps and books into a box with the money. Yes…cash in an envelope! That’s the way country folks did business back in those days.

This was the last we heard from “that bunch of Sleaze-Ball Carpetbaggers” in New Jersey.

Relief…my life was saved! My Mom just couldn’t let her baby son go to prison for $35, which was a lot at that time. This would indicate just how much she loved me.

Taking inflation into account that $35 would be the equivalent of $363.38 today! And we needed that money to buy groceries and the essentials of life!

Ever since that event, I’ve always had a bad opinion of anything to do with New Jersey…even today!

My mom also taught me so much about the Bible when I was really young, which goes with me, even today. I’d say she gave me the foundation to expand my knowledge of Jesus Christ and the Bible.

I remember so well her reading to me: Luke 16:19-31 KJV: She talked with me about eternity and said: “can you imagine, constant torment that never ends?” Even at a very young age, this for sure caught my attention. Read the Bible….don’t be deceived, Hell is a real place!

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The following is the story for easier reading. Only a few spelling changes were made and paragraphs for “again” easier reading.

One word in particular: Stem was changed to Steam in my keyboard typed version, but will remain “original” of course in his grandsons report.

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