Archive for March 12, 2023

Losing My Observing Partner After 17 Years

March 12, 2023

Deep-sky observing can be enjoyed with a group or solitary, however for me, I much prefer the latter. I always have a planned agenda, with the object or objects that I’m interested in observing.

Deep-Sky observing (galaxies, nebula and star clusters) are very serious business for me, with no time for idle chatter or distractions! There are pencil sketches and notes to make! 🙂

However, I did have one observing partner that was with me on a regular basis for almost 17 years, but she passed away in February 2016. Its been eight years as of 2024, and I still miss and think about her often.  

I can still see CJ, our Persian Cat, waiting anxiously at the back door, ready to go outside, while I’d be setting up my telescope on the deck or in the backyard. 

When the door was finally opened, she would run out, fast as she could and so excited. She would walk around, climb the deck, play like she was catching something….pouncing and clawing the ground. However, after a short while, she’d end up on my lap, either due to being cold or to just feel safe.  

CJ was going to stay with me for only a couple weeks and would then be moving to California, but that two weeks ended up being almost 17 years.  I’m really glad the move didn’t work out.   

Debbie and I held her in our arms from 11:30 AM till 8:15 PM.  I had my hand on her chest when her little heart beat the last time, after 19 years.  It was a very, very sad day.  

CJ had a wonderful life.  We treated her like a Princess.  

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